what is being a 'dad'? pt 1

 Well, it is about never doing this...
even if you know it is the only rational thing to do. No one anything in their head worthwhile for years..may as well have it surgically removed.

(and there is always beauty even between the killing rails)

explaining to her last night... drinking like that apart from making you ill, will never ever ernd well...

ALWAYS

And... there is MODERN and there are people stuck in the stone age...

But, segwaying down from item above ..

Dad is ...well i wrote or waffled it elsewhere..

dad is in fact writing this and other things now - a mess.. badly organised written and even without time to look at typos..

I have far better verses and essays here and there. 

But i accept bad presentation to try and make a point...to assist.

And one of those rather good philosophical wafflings is Dad once he has debated within what is 'best' and maybe of mutual benefit, acts as if that will come to pass...NO MATTER WHAT...

he keeps his notes

his thought through plans for the OTHER being daddied...

And he knows there is no 'help' there is facilitation, if those notions ever did come to pass then if he can add in facilitating a younger persons journey... you need to be organised...

 

Dad is also telling the MODERN truth..

sorry, religion and sex... 

though terribly dull (unless doing one of them) do need to be talked about.

Some cultures - uk, US and most Islamic have simply torn themselves to pieces over the latter. UK and us... its as if homosexuality and a perverted version of 'prejudice' have only just been invented...
And a far better conversation must be daily had. And as for r3ligion...it is seeping back everywhere even in the 'New Age' .. fantaical evil ...it needs talking about daily....and the best possible jokes telling of them all...not to hurt, but to satirise. Britain became 'Great' just for a few decades, via the one thing that always is the answer - gentle satire..